What is that? Was that a.....???
Many people see Orbs and wonder what they are. All over the web you will find people have theories on what ‘orbs’ are. As for myself, most of the time when people show me orbs my background as a photographer quickly identifies the source but for those other times…… I have always regarded them as spirits, fairies and angels.
How do you know what you have seen?
You have to trust yourself. You do know. The question to ask is how did you feel? When we acknowledge seeing something like an orb it is natural to feel unsettled at the strangeness or unfamiliarity, but did you feel scared or angry with a strong desire to get away, or did you feel curious, surprised, or ‘special’ in some way?
How do you know if what you see is not a negative entity?
A spirit, fairy or angel may not make you have an abundance feeling of love due to our own cautious nature, but it will give you a pleasant response whereas a negative spirit will sharpen or harshen our feelings and a part of us will be repelled away. Even the trickiest of negative spirits who try to appeal to our ‘softer side’ will do so through soothing sadness or comforting sorrowful feelings whereas positive entities will ‘lighten’ our burdens. Another way of identifying the difference is the feelings of wallowing versus being lifted up. If you are ever in doubt call upon the light of Divine Spirit.
How do I know if it is a spirit, fairy or angel?
Spirits rarely become visible to us, it is very difficult as it requires a lot of energy but occasionally they do appear. A positive spirit will be sensitive to your comfort, inside of you a name, image or sense of who it is will emerge and often this is accompanied by a message.
When a fairy appears it is of great honor as few people have seen them. These little entities are playful and you wont be able to contain the smile that they inspire. Fairies won't hesitate to scold you if they feel you have mistreated or disrespected an animal or nature in some way, or if you should be doing more for our earth environment. They will also direct or inspire us to do more for nature and remind you of your connection to mother earth. Fairies will thank you as well. These are delightful little spirits that are passionately protective of our natural environment on earth. I encourage you to send them love and thank then for the job they do.
Of all the orbs Angels appear most often. Angels lift us up form our burdens, spread love, encourage, inspire, support, nurture and heal - all we have to do is ask and they will give. Angel's always work in our highest good and, due to our free will, will only help when we ask. If you see an angel orb it is a reminder to talk to the angels, they are there to support you in every way, sent by the Divine Spirit that connects us all. If you feel that the angels are not delivering what you asked for then trust that what you have asked for is not in your highest good. Angels have a perspective on our earthly lives that is far bigger than what we as incarnated souls understand, they know our soul's true desires and needs. Angels always answer our prayers, but not always the way we have asked for. They will guide us, provide choices and give us strength but never will they make the decision of action for us, that is our free will.
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Tip #1 - Remember you are both individuals
You are two completely separate individuals who are sharing each others lives. You do not need to have the same likes, the same experiences or even the same opinions, but you do need to honor yourself for your individuality and honor your partner for their individuality.
Tip#2 - You are on the same TEAM
Yes you are a team, if no one ever told you that, well I am telling you now. You are two individual players on the same team in the game of life.
Tip #3 - Play your position
If every person on a team played the same position the team would fail. You work together towards the goal(s), each person playing their position to the best of their abilities.
Tip #4 - Assume the other player is doing their best
Always build each other up, encouragement and support makes for a stronger team. Tearing each other down, pointing out each other's faults will break the team.
Tip#5 - Pick up the ball
If a player is hurt, makes a mistake or receives a penalty, then pick up the ball until the player is back in the game.
Tip#6 - Ask for what you need
Your partner is trusting you to play your position and they are playing theirs, if you need something than ask! Do not assume your partner is following after you checking to see if you are ok. This is a big compliment and an act of trust, so honor it and ask for what you need.
Tip #7 - Celebrate the scores!
When one of you succeeds or has a great play celebrate together. Be happy for your partner, acknowledge their goals and let them enjoy their moment in the sun.
Tip #8 - Huddle
Every team takes moments to pull together and set the game play, you need to do this in your marriage too. Make time to review, learn and take stock of the playbook, make sure you both understand the game, the goals and the plays to get there.
I hope you enjoyed The Game of Life Relationship Tips. One of the greatest joys in the human experience is the connection between two souls who are committed to journey through life together. These relationships bring us deep satisfaction and stretch our hearts with the depths of love. They also provide our greatest challenges and surface our biggest fears.
As our relationships grow and mature they change, we have moments of deep passion, connection so strong it leaves us awed at its intensity and other moments when we feel completely confused wondering who is this stranger, what happened to my partner? Where did the person I married go? These are normal processes in long term relationships. Just like you grow and change as a person, so does your relationship. How you decide to react to these changes will make or break your relationship.
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